Dreaming.In.Reality

Saturday Scruples

1. Outside a conference room in a hotel, participants are enjoying sandwiches, coffee, and pastries. You could use some refreshment. Do you help yourself? Probably.. Specially if it’s a LARGE group of people where most of you are strangers to each other.. like some sort of random seminar.

2. It’s a sweltering night and you don’t have air conditioning. Your new neighbors are away and their swimming pool looks inviting. Do you cool off in it? LOL no.. because if i can see their pool from my house, I probably know what they do in their pool.

3. Your teenager nervously confesses that s/he is sexually attracted to his/her own sex. Do you react in a supportive way? Absolutely 100%. Even if as a parent, it went against my OWN morals or personal ideas.. I have seen enough teens/people suffer due to close minded people. For a teenager, acceptance of every possible kind is probably the number 1 goal for them personally. Having your parent support you and accept you, can be the make or break for some young people’s lives. If I was a parent, I would never willingly hurt my child, and if it was a situation where I needed to rethink things or just accept ideas for the sake of my child’s health and well being then so be it. With the support and love of a parent, perhaps then the teen can make healthy choices and grow into who they are with more ease.

Sexy Saturday

Have you ever done anything kinky? What do you consider to be kinky?
I guess it is all in the eyes of the beholder in the world of kink. Not too many years ago, bondage was the whispers of ultimate kink.. and now it almost seems everyday commonplace. Now kinky seems to run along a parallel line with fetish.. hand in hand, somedays those two can get a bit out of control. Do I think light to medium bondage kinky/sexy? yes.. Do I think peeing on someone kinky/sexy? No. But someone out there does. It’s all about personal taste and conception of an idea.

NOW.. in the general lines of the normality.. have I done anything “kinky”? Yes.. Yes I have.

Saturday-8: “Why?”

1.Why so many of us drool in our sleep and wake with that nasty crusty stuff in our eyes?
I’m a drooler, but I don’t get the eye crusties. I drool mostly when I’m in a light sleep and sleeping on my side. Naps are terrible for me because of this.. my poor pillow.. nearly drowned every time.

2.Why can we not remember the last person to tell us that we were beautiful or smart but we can remember all 15 people who told us how ugly and how much of a habitual screw up we are?The human obsession with negativity.

3.Why do any of us care 30 years later whether it has “great taste” or is “less filling”?
I don’t because most domestic beers taste like pisswater anyways.
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saturday slant

If you could have back for one hour someone who has left your life, who would it be and what would you do and say with him/her?
It doesn’t necessarily have to be someone who has passed away; it could be someone who is simply no longer a part of your life. With whom would you most want to spend one more hour? What would you and s/he do during that hour? What would you say? Search your heart.

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