Dreaming.In.Reality

Again.. I’ve had a friend.. pull the expectance of “i hate this person, so you should too” on me. I am tired of this, I am my own person, I choose who I am friendly to, who I am not friendly to, who I choose to have as friends, and who I choose to not have as friends. I would not expect any of my friends to hate someone, or be cruel to them.. just on the basis of my own feelings towards that person. Foolishly though, I think my friends would be the same, and not expect me to hate or be cruel to someone they had ill feelings towards. Obviously today I was wrong. I AM expected to hate someone, who though has made choices and performed actions I don’t approve of or like, I have no personal basis to hate/be cruel to them. I AM expected to ignore them, be cruel when necessary.. that is not an expectation one can consider in a friendship. I’m sorry, but I will not do that. If you have problems with that, then so be it…I will not change who I am, to be a more negative person.. I have enough of that in me already, and I’ve had enough of it around me.